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Parenting 101: Leave the smart mouth at home…. ~ Northernmum

Picture the scene…

It was 2012 and Britain was gripped by the malaise of a double dip recession, the economy was on its knees begging for the boom to return and families were feeling the pressure.

This was no where truer than the Blackmore house, hard times had fallen the two working parents and their three children.  In the good times they had enjoyed extravaganzas like eating at Pizza Express for family night on a Friday, now they all made do with sharing a £1.49 Margarita from Aldi whilst huddled round the gas radiator playing Dominos for fun.

Times were tough….

But they were still a family and northernmum and her long suffering husband he who helped create them swore to make it better, to do all they could to give their children a good life. 

But they worried…

Recent events had shown a turn in personality in their oldest daughter; a house move, a new school year, a return to work for her father had caused Twin Girl to become a body of worries, afflicted by nerves which were keeping her awake at night.  She was trying to be brave but even school had commented that the bright shining little girl who normally graced their classroom had been replaced by a shy, anxious little thing who was terrified to put a foot wrong.

Then one day the sun shone a little brighter on recessed England when twin girl flew home from school with a skip in her step, she ran into the kitchen and greeted her parents with a smile they had not seen for weeks.

‘I am star of the week’ she cried with joy in her voice.

Northernmum stifled a sob to see her eldest girl happy once more and silently thanked the perceptive teacher at school.

‘We are so proud’ cried out he who helped create them ‘what shall we do to celebrate?’

Twin girl’s eyes dropped to the floor once more, ‘could we’ she mumbled ‘could we maybe go to the cinema?’

Northernmum and he who helped create them exchanged worried glances, with finances as they were and a trip to the flicks for five costing the same as a one bedroom flat they didn’t know if this was a dream they could make come true.  But then northernmum went bold as she looked at her daughters face and she declared with more conviction than she felt; ‘darling you shall go to the pics.’

So off they went with snacks sewed into hemlines to avoid suspicion and water hidden in babies’ bottles. 

The cinema was deserted barr a few lonely souls, one man could be seen trying to exchange his first born son for a ticket to see the latest Twilight film whilst another was offering a cow in exchange for a seat.

Northernmum walked to the counter with twin boy at her side; ‘a family ticket please’ she said.

The teenage girl peered at her ‘how many?’ she glared.

‘A family’ stuttered northernmum ‘that’s all.’

‘How many in the family’ sneered the cashier, ‘I needs to know init’

Forlorn, northernmum muttered ‘five, we are five.’

Glee lit up the teenagers eyes ‘five? That’s not a family, a family is four, and you need to pay extra.’

‘B.b.b.but’ stuttered northernmum wondering how they would eat that week ‘the baby is but one years old.’

The teenager looked crestfallen ‘oh,’ she said ‘she has a lap seat then and you donts need to pay, she can’t sit on her own seat though.’

Relieved northernmum looked through her purse for a few gold coins and then suddenly a voice piped up…

‘Mummy’ said the fog horn, ‘BB isn’t one, she is two isn’t she.’

Northernmum turned the same shade as her crimson boots..

‘No honey,’ she said with a tight smile ‘she is one, remember.’

‘Are you daft?’ exclaimed her son, ‘she has been around for two years not one.’

The teenager raised a pierced eyebrow and silently held out her palm.

‘Oh yes,’ fake giggled northernmum, ‘it was her birthday last week, silly me.’ She said in a sing song voice.

‘Are you bonkers mummy?  She turned two ages ago, back in May, you needs to take Nanny’s memory pills.’ Cried Twin boy.

Northernmum died a little inside from shame, handed over the gold and slunk off to the welcome darkness of the movie theatre.

There are two morals to this tale dear reader…

One) Lying is bad and no good will come off it

Or

Two) leave the kid with the smart mouth behind when you are trying to pull a fast one!

 

Comments

  1. Circus Queen says

    October 16, 2012 at 11:55 am

    That’s quite a statement to make though “Five is not a family”. What a thing to say! (even if it was just stating policy…)

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:58 pm

      imagine how they cope with six?

      Reply
  2. older mum in a muddle says

    October 16, 2012 at 12:34 pm

    Agree with Circus Queen, what kind of a comment is that? Next time gag the twins! You must have felt mortified! :o(.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:58 pm

      Non surprisingly I am used to it

      Reply
  3. singingangel1 says

    October 16, 2012 at 3:54 pm

    Oh I love this. Mine are all grown up now but I remember ‘amending’ ages to suit the situation and cost. I miss the honesty of youth!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:57 pm

      It keeps getting me into trouble

      Reply
  4. Jacq says

    October 16, 2012 at 4:52 pm

    Ha ha- at least you managed to sneak the drinks and snacks through!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:56 pm

      always

      Reply
  5. Sian says

    October 16, 2012 at 5:16 pm

    that rings a bell, we until he shot up and now looks the same height as his 10/11 year old friends would try the ‘no, he’s not quite six’ line – keeping him some distance away so they couldn’t have a good look!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:56 pm

      LOL – out of sight out of age range

      Reply
  6. JDaniel4's Mom says

    October 16, 2012 at 5:49 pm

    For a long time JDaniel would say he was a year younger. He would have gone along with you.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:56 pm

      want to swap one?

      Reply
  7. Lisa @ motherhoodormadness says

    October 16, 2012 at 7:34 pm

    Bloody kids, being all truthful and honest lol

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:55 pm

      sent to try us!

      Reply
  8. Emma @mummymummymum says

    October 16, 2012 at 8:00 pm

    Ha ha, next time you need to pre warn the twins…or would that be bad parenting?

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:55 pm

      wouldnt be unusual!

      Reply
  9. Emma says

    October 16, 2012 at 8:26 pm

    brilliant! I made dyl sit in a buggy and not talk to get him into seaworld for free!! May try the same trick with Erin in 2014!!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:55 pm

      Good plan!

      Reply
  10. Looking for Blue Sky says

    October 16, 2012 at 8:27 pm

    Or just tell the kids that you’re going to play a little game at the cinema and all make up your own ages for the night…(only you decide the baby’s age)

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:52 pm

      Clever!

      Reply
  11. Suzanne says

    October 16, 2012 at 10:21 pm

    Hilarious, love your style of writing 🙂 The price of the cinema is a total rip off for families of 5 grrr! And yes, I too take snacks and drinks in a rather cavernous bag!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:51 pm

      Good skills

      Reply
  12. teawithonesugar says

    October 16, 2012 at 10:57 pm

    Tsk I hate that 4 family ticket only thing! Bites me on the bum every time we go out

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:51 pm

      Makes one feel unnatural with our super size family!

      Reply
  13. Ali says

    October 17, 2012 at 8:59 pm

    Nothing changes, in the olden days when the price for the local zoo was per car we loaded kids in foot wells, parcel shelves, and boots, I justify this by saying it was an estate car, TV was only in black and white there was less traffic on the road.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:50 pm

      *snort*

      Reply
  14. Notmyyearoff says

    October 18, 2012 at 9:48 pm

    Hahaa!!! I remember sneaking an entire McDonalds meal into the cinema once. I’m not sure how we did it. It worked though.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 9:02 pm

      Respect!

      Reply
  15. Bass says

    October 20, 2012 at 5:39 pm

    Lovely story and the moral of the story is white lines don’t do it, white lies do do it.
    I once long ago to my parents disgrace, I entered some long forgotten museum with a full gown beard with a 14 year old threshold on entry. I was passed through with some awkward eye movements and body language. The thing was that I was 14, it was the summer and the Pryce DNA has a hairy gene. My parents now believe there should be a UK national identity system in place for no other reason than to prove I was actually 14 and save their place in Heaven.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      October 20, 2012 at 8:49 pm

      Ha! your poor parents!

      Reply
  16. Elle says

    October 22, 2012 at 3:41 pm

    What a jobsworth that girl was, uuurgh!! We also got a Maccy Ds in, burger up one sleeve, drink up t’other – not a pleasant experience but well worth it! : )

    Reply

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