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How not to behave at Sports Day

It was Sports Day.  Not for the bigger two, but for the little one.  The one that just turned three.  Nerves filled my lungs as I tried to dress her appropriately.  My heart sunk a little when she picked out a frilly top and skirt, with sparkling shoes to match.  I steeled myself for the tantrum when I refused point blank to let her dress as she wished; instead, I opted for a more sporting look.  Leggings, white collared t-shirt, plain socks, Peppa Pig trainers, and sweat bands.  She threw the sweat bands at me, point blank refusing to wear them.  I figured she would learn when the first bead of sweat hit her in the eyes during her initial race.

We take Sports Day very seriously in this house.

I resisted speaking to the preschool teacher beforehand about BB’s clear disadvantage, she only learnt how to run eight weeks ago.  He who helped create them made me promise not to say anything about hip dislocations meaning she should start 50 yards in front.  We decided, as a family, that she should take her place on the line, amongst her peers.  No exception would be made for my limping girl.

I have to be honest; I didn’t have much faith in her bringing home a medal.  Still, I steeled myself with the ‘mummy smile’ and practised the lie; it is just taking part that counts, in front of the mirror until I almost believed it.

We left the house and drove the short distance to preschool.  We normally walk but I didn’t want to disadvantage her in any way, so I tried to keep her immobile until the start.

I feel I need to gloss over the fact that during the first race tears filled my eyes when I saw BB run, really run, towards the finish line.  This time last year, she had not mastered walking, the legacy of hip surgery still very fresh in our minds.  Sports Day normally brings out a small bit of competitiveness in me.  So I was as surprised as you when I found myself sobbing into my hankie as my daughter came last in the running race.  For the first time ever I didn’t care about her place, I was just so bloody happy to see her running.

After the first race, I had a quiet word with myself in the ridiculously small preschool loos.  I banished over emotional mum and brought back the Sports Day parent.

Egg and Spoon came and went, we didn’t get a medal.  I tried to raise a steward’s enquiry into why the winner was not disqualified when she clearly held her egg the entire way.  It would seem steward’s enquiries are not applicable at preschool level.  Had I known this before I would have superglued BB’s egg to the spoon, she spent the vast majority of the race chasing it round the grass, chuckling gently to herself.

Then it was time for the backwards race.

They called for the under three’s to line up at the start, I watched with a smile twitching at my lips as BB joined the group.  In normal circumstances I would have reminded her that she was three already.  But, after the debacle with the egg and spoon I decided to let it go.

Ready, steady, go.

BB set off at a backwards pace that any child would be proud off.  Not twisting her head like her opponents, she walked steadily and with purpose, backwards towards the finish line.  My heart started to beat faster, she was breaking away, and she was in the lead.  As I stared, hands wrapped together in hope, teeth biting my lips, I started to shout ‘c’mon BB, c’mon.’  This did create a few odd looks from the other parents, but, I figured at least they were getting a taste of life at Sports Day in big school.

She carried on, the line getting closer, the other kids falling away.

Then it happened.

The little girl in second place started to veer slightly left, she looked like she was going to walk backwards right off the track.  In my world, this would be instant disqualification.  In preschool world, it seems it gives her mother the chance to step in.

Her mum grabbed her hand and steered her on course, then she stayed on the track and pulled her daughter towards the line with speed that both impressed and mortified me.  The mother and daughter team were catching BB.  I leapt to my feet, determined to run on to the field and pull my own daughter through the finish line.  I just about managed to stop myself when I realised it probably would not earn me any friends.

So I watched.  BB strode on confidently, mother and daughter half ran, half stumbled.  I yelled words of encouragement, the chap next to me stared open mouthed in my direction.

Then they all crossed the line, from my view, BB was a hair in front, but it was too close to call.

Apparently they don’t do photo finish at preschool either.

BB and I decided to take it as a win.  I quickly updated all social media channels to tell the world we had stolen Gold at Sports Day.

I think I need to take Valium before I watch the twins this year.

Comments

  1. jo says

    June 27, 2013 at 12:42 pm

    Aaaaw you did it again, you made me do a little tear! Well done bb (and well done you too – I’d have ran and dragged H over the line in a defiant parent rage) – I am already getting myself ready for this fear. We’ve a dance recital next week with H (also 3) which I’ll probably bawl when she walks in a line. Whimper.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:40 pm

      awww, you’ll be fine, gin?

      Reply
  2. The Breastest News says

    June 27, 2013 at 12:57 pm

    This made me laugh so much. It’s so hard not to get competitive lol. My son had his nursery sports day on Tuesday there and you should have seen some of the parents! Logan decided to join in every race and never won anything but he got a little gold medal at the end. He was over the moon. I actually contemplated buying one from the shops and keeping it on standby incase he didn’t win lol. You just want to see them happy 🙂

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    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:40 pm

      Indeed x

      Reply
  3. Mary says

    June 27, 2013 at 1:03 pm

    What kind of values are they teaching them with all this laissez-faire attitude to cheating at pre-school?! But seriously, how flipping brilliant to see BB running races on Sports Day. Gold will be hers next year, I’m sure.

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    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:39 pm

      Thanks Mary x x

      Reply
  4. Suzanne says

    June 27, 2013 at 6:40 pm

    HaHa. Nothing quite like sports day to bring out the tiger mums in us all. Well done to your little one. x

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:39 pm

      grrrr

      Reply
  5. Michelle Twin Mum says

    June 27, 2013 at 8:10 pm

    I can just picture you running onto the field and helping her along. So glad your little lady is able to run in the races now, that is super special. Mich x

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    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:39 pm

      Thanks Michelle x

      Reply
  6. Notmyyearoff says

    June 27, 2013 at 8:12 pm

    Hooooorayyyy on BB winning the backwards race. That mother should have clearly been disqualified. Next year I think I want to come along just to watch you 🙂

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:38 pm

      Maybe I could sell tickets?

      Reply
  7. Stephs Two Girls says

    June 27, 2013 at 9:11 pm

    Backwards racing is the best idea I’ve heard in ages. Coz then if you come last, I reckon you’ve actually come first. But anyhow Yay! Well done BB for a sterling effort, and we know it was for her, which means all so much more than for the other children there. You had every right to be teary – waterproof mascara I hope?!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:38 pm

      lots of it!

      Reply
  8. becky says

    June 28, 2013 at 6:38 am

    so funny I’m not competitive at all with sports but get me on spellings!!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:38 pm

      I am stupidly competitive – not my best quality

      Reply
  9. Pants With Names says

    June 28, 2013 at 8:24 pm

    She’s awesome, your BB. Such a superstar.

    They’ve had to stop the fathers race at our school this year – last year someone got pushed, fell, and broke his shoulder. And I came last in the Mother’s Race which I tell myself was all about teaching the boys to lose gracefully, but I know I’m too competitive for that – it was really because I am the slowest runner of all time.

    Looking forward to the reports of the twins sports day!

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    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:37 pm

      Valium!

      Reply
  10. Middle-Aged Matron says

    June 29, 2013 at 2:49 pm

    Starting pistols should be adapted to deal with people like that mother.

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:37 pm

      LOL!

      Reply
  11. Emma says

    June 29, 2013 at 8:40 pm

    I might just be crying as I get this like 100000% I was at a football funday today and a lovely mum commented how lovely it was to see Erin running. I was then crushed with ‘obviously she isn’t running like anyone else and her leg is flipping out and she looks different but hey she is running’ Meant in the best possible way but arghhh.

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    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:37 pm

      was meant well x

      Reply
  12. Coombemill says

    July 1, 2013 at 11:26 pm

    A great read as ever. I’m posting our sports day fun for Country Kids this weekend with my star of the show in year 6 deciding the sack race was easier backwards than forwards!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:32 pm

      Thanks Fi x

      Reply
  13. Erica Price says

    July 2, 2013 at 1:16 pm

    Well done BB. Amazing how far and how quickly she has come.

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    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:28 pm

      Thanks Erica x

      Reply
  14. blackhuff says

    July 3, 2013 at 8:51 am

    It’s sad that we get people like this. How does this mom teach her child the values of life?
    I agree, your child won. Congrats 🙂

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:28 pm

      aw, she was only helping!

      Reply
  15. Circus Queen says

    July 4, 2013 at 7:34 am

    I teared up at this! Amazing, BB!

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 4, 2013 at 3:27 pm

      Thanks x

      Reply
  16. Emma says

    July 5, 2013 at 3:39 pm

    Awww, well done BB. 🙂

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 5, 2013 at 7:16 pm

      Thanks x xxx

      Reply
  17. Cakesphotoslife (Angie) says

    July 18, 2013 at 5:53 pm

    What an amazing story and achievement, well done to BB.

    Thank you for linking up with the Sports day posts x

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    • northernmum says

      July 18, 2013 at 7:59 pm

      Thanks Angie

      Reply
  18. Helen The good life mum says

    July 18, 2013 at 6:07 pm

    haha brilliant if that was me i would of run on elbowed the mum off the track and dragged my little one over the line, i cant believe so much cheating was allowed take your super glue for next year 🙂

    Reply
    • northernmum says

      July 18, 2013 at 7:58 pm

      Super glue – great idea!

      Reply

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