Parenting can be such a joy, such an honour, and it is hard to keep track of the many individual moments that make up a lifetime. Tonight I was witness to such a moment.... BB is a Daddy’s girl, all day today she has paced the floors asking when Daddy will be home; she has told me with all the seriousness of a two year that ‘Daddy is out working, doing very important things.’ She has … [Read more...]

How to shame yourself with ease…
It has been a while since I dated, and I am pretty sure that the whole scene has changed a little since I was last on ‘on the shelf’. I won’t lie, I hated it; when I was a singleton and hunting down a mate, the main option was simply to try and make yourself look as seductive as possible and head off to the bar to pose all night looking alluring but not easy. I didn’t always pull it … [Read more...]

Fashion, being fat and Camel Toe….
I am a little stressed, actually scrap that, I am a lot stressed. I am the level of stressed that actually grips at your tummy and means I spend almost as much time in the toilet as a man does. Too much information? Apologies. Anyway; I have a ‘do’ to go to; a posh one; which means my nails must be filed, my eyebrows tweezed, my hair must be clean and my body attired in appropriate … [Read more...]

Lets Hope: Standing on Knife’s Edge…
For over a week now my stomach has been gripped with anxiety and fear has been a constant companion. As someone who isn’t known particularly to fret it is a curious sensation to be on a knifes edge all day long, tottering near the prepice, unsure as to when and if the house of cards will come tumbling down. Everything has been going too well, diabetes seems to be behaving herself and twin … [Read more...]

Cross Country Competition
The twins have their next cross country meet on saturday. We have started prepping already, porridge for breakfast and pasta for tea and lots of fruity goodness in between to ensure we have optimum carb and cal ratio to power those little legs. Nothing better that legging it round a freezing cold field on a saturday morning to build stamina. I have noticed at these races that some parents … [Read more...]

More things the NCT never told me….
I loved my NCT classes I really did and I don't regret a penny I spent on them but still in retrospect I think they glossed over some of the parts of motherhood creating a more idealised view, just thought it was worth sharing a couple of things that the NCT never told me. Breastfeeding can make you thin was the advice my lovely natural leader told me, turns out that doesn’t apply if you … [Read more...]

An apology to all the tired, knackered mothers
Dear tired, knackered mothers, I’m sorry. When the twins were born I fell under the category of smug mother, my children slept and they slept well. Around me the rest of you wandered around looking grey and lifeless, your arms aching from constant rocking and rucksacks forming under your eyes. God I was happy, with eight hours sleep I could do anything, I could cope with two bundles … [Read more...]

Win a Micro-Scooter School Bag
Fantastic competition to win a super micro scooter rucksack, simply click this link and tell me in the comments section, which is your favourite scooter or accessory. Please note it is a condition of entry that you visit the Micro Scooter website. The Micro Rucksack and Lunch box is large enough to fit in a PE kit and school books, and has a detachable insulated lunch bag. Designed to fit … [Read more...]

Operation Day: 12 months later…. (Hip Dysplasia survival)
Hip Dysplasia has not beaten us. Time is a curious thing. This time a year ago I was filled to the brim with anxiety, I paced the hospital corridors biting my nails waiting for my one year old daughter to return from theatre with her legs bound in spica to correct Hip Dysplasia. A whole year ago. Look at us now, I barely recongnise my daughter. Free from cast, learning to run when we … [Read more...]

Making Waves for Alex: Seeing Love
My children asked me once what love looked like and I struggled to find the words to answer, how to you describe the most over powering emotion in the world, how can you make a feeling a vision? I had the extraordinary good luck to see love this weekend, to stand in a room filled with it and to later leave that room touched by it. This weekend I went to the Making Waves for Alex Ball. I … [Read more...]






